preach it

And even if we did have only Christians in our midst, if we expelled every non-Christian from the United States of America, whose Christianity would we teach in the schools? Would we go with James Dobson’s, or Al Sharpton’s? Which passages of Scripture should guide our public policy? Should we go with Leviticus, which suggests slavery is ok and that eating shellfish is abomination? How about Deuteronomy, which suggests stoning your child if he strays from the faith? Or should we just stick to the Sermon on the Mount - a passage that is so radical that it’s doubtful that our own Defense Department would survive its application? So before we get carried away, let’s read our bibles. Folks haven’t been reading their bibles.

- President Obama

livejournal: cutting back

some people saw the post and some didn't, about trimming down the friends list. it's nothing personal, except for one person, and if you have to wonder, it's not you. they know. i stuck with real life/austin friends and a few people that i interact with at least somewhat regularly. for people where we don't really 'talk,' i trimmed there. i hardly post here anymore, which is part of the whole deal too.

quoted for truth.

this comment makes a good point, relating to one i've thought about. why is it that those of us with liberal values are berated and made to feel like we're mean and should be ashamed of it, while the loudest uber conservatives have no shame in spouting off anything they want, whether or not it's true? why does even the discourse of generation x seem to require more work, more proof, and more perfection from liberal thinkers? why do the idiots get a pass? granted, some of my liberal acquaintances (*ahem*amanda*) not to mention suzie and the captain, will go full force and say 'you're talking crazy shit.' but it just seems that there is a burden on those who value truth, equality, independence, and fairness to somehow justify wanting things to be BETTER FOR EVERYONE. wtf.

Honestly, I still can’t get over how rude these people are. The few liberals in my family are always careful not to talk about politics at family gatherings, but our conservative relatives have no such qualms. At Christmas dinner they’ll talk about abortion and how global warming is a hoax and how black people are the real racists, while the rest of us keep mum because we don’t want to turn a mostly peaceful gathering into a shouting match. Predictably, these conservatives are also very quick to anger when you challenge them. Gently suggest to my dad that he might want to check out a different source for more accurate info, and he’ll fly off the handle. It’s so frustrating to be unable to defend yourself because you’re unwilling to make a scene or burn bridges with family members over something like politics.

feminism fail

wait, what, this twit thinks she's a feminist? ohhh uh bite me.


‘At work, gender should not come into it. Women are right to refuse to make the coffee, but when you get home I’m afraid you have to make the coffee.

oh honey, i don't have to do jack shit.

‘It’s such a waste of time trying to tell your husband to pick up the socks or clean the loo. It’s much easier just to do it yourself.’

that's right, enable their childish behavior! they don't act like adults because you do everything for them! people will keep doing what you let them get away with. this is one way that ruben's newspaper to the nose carries some weight.

She once told women not to expect orgasms but to fake them and still praise their lover.

BAHAHAHAH BITCH PLEASE. damn right i expect it, and if i'm not getting it, we're either gonna fix that or i'll stop wasting my time. if the goal isn't for everyone to enjoy it, why bother with involving another person? and faking it, oh HELL no. you don't praise a puppy for peeing on the rug. XD faking it guarantees he will ALWAYS do it wrong.

‘Women want boyfriends to be like their girlfriends, fun to go to the pictures with, but men are not like that. They want sex and they grunt. If you really want a man to be nice to you, never give him a hard time, never talk about emotions and never ask him how he is feeling.’

wow. the feminists i know have much higher opinions of men than this. funny how that works. i thought we were the man-haters, so why are we the ones who expect more from men and respect them as humans? anti-feminism is so babyish.

real men take responsibility for themselves. i will call out anyone who wants a mommy figure as the manchild they are. and enablers like this woman just help perpetuate men acting like children.

as usual, amanda says it best:

"We hate men so much we think they’re people. What I fail to understand---when I hear anti-feminists scold the little ladies about our supposed illusions that men could ever actually like, much less love us---is why on earth, if men are so horrible, women should associate with them? Even for straight women, in Weldon’s world, expecting sexual satisfaction out of men is ridiculous. From this interview, from what I can tell, Weldon thinks men have absolutely nothing to offer women. Not sexual pleasure, not kindness, nothing but more socks to pick up. The only reason it works is anti-feminists think even less of women than they do of men, and thus are capable of believing that women are so incredibly needy and stupid that we’ll cling to men who give us absolutely nothing, so we can lie to ourselves and pretend that it’s possible that anyone could love us. Bleak worldview, indeed. "

be nice

stealing this from empressaurelius...

Have you ever wondered what your friends really think of you? Now's your chance to find out! This post will serve as a slate for all of your friends to etch their love for you into. They will respond with how they feel, whether it's a sentence or a paragraph. Be random, go nuts, and have fun! But most importantly, show your friend how much you appreciate them!

and hell i'll even leave an anonymous option, i guess. just don't be an ass, okay? ;p

the far end of the Nice Guy spectrum

and guys wonder why these entitled, selfish douches disgust intelligent women. because it's going down a path where you see women as the bitches who withhold sex from you. the difference is only in the degree of the delusions. here's hoping no one tries to defend these 'pick up artist' camps because it's all about pretending to be whatever you think women will sleep with, the dumb hos. anyone who sees any worth in learning how to manipulate women, which is all it is, needs to take themselves out of my journal, kthx.


quoted for truth:

"When your goal is not to meet members of the opposite (or, for that matter, same) sex to get to know, talk to, and maybe sleep with, but your goal is to meet someone hot to sleep with full stop, you’re not trying to meet a person. You’re trying to meet an object, a thing, a come rag. You’re not looking for a hot girlfriend because you find her interesting and sexually attractive, you’re looking for a trophy that fucks you.

There’s no deeper objectification than that. And no way to steer out of that into anything resembling a sane relationship with women." - Jeff Fecke